The article "Marriage Advice" is about marriage, it was released by CD.
Marriage is a beautiful relationship. Unfortunately, during the curernt years, more marriages are getting broken than ever.
People are not able to co exist together in marriage. What are the possible reasons?
Why marriages are breaking faster, why are we not getting what we want from marriage? Are our expectations wrong? Or our choice of partner is faulty?
Let us notice.
The major fcators that contribute to success in marriage are - Knowing what we desire in the marriage, selecting the right partner for fulfilling those desires, defining marriage goals and getting approval about them from the partner, discussing all the issues that hurt the relationship, changing your own style of relating so that marriage becomes stronger and not giving up so easily if cracks develop and try to save the marriage. a broken marriage is not pleasant for any one and hurts.
A marriage is like a cart on two wheels.
Both the partners are the wheels. If one wheel becomes weaker or if the wheels are different in size, the cart stops moving. It is similar with marriage.
If one partner over dominates or demands more only for himself/herself, the marriage will suffer.
For a marriage to succeed, the partners have to take care of each other's desires, emotions, physical needs and intellectual needs. Both the partners have to support each ohter to grow and not criticize each other.
For example, if a patrner knows that his/her spouse is weak in a certain area, it is the duty of the other partner to compensate that and not criticize.
Another fcator is fear of conflict. Sometimes, the conflicts become so pain giving that patrners avoid talking to each other fearing that a conflict may arise. This fear of conflcit will kill all communication. Instead what is needed is- healthy communication and peaceful resolution of conflicts in a spirit of give and take. Why should a partner be afraid of talking to other partner in a marriage? That sounds ridiculous, but that is true. This phase spells near death of a marrigae. Marriage is a beautiful phase of life. The secret lies in how to carry on for a lifetime.
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